refactor: move data_dir override from env var to [server] TOML field

Reverts the NUMA_DATA_DIR env var added in the previous commit and
replaces it with a [server] data_dir TOML field. Numa already has a
well-developed config system; adding a parallel env-var mechanism
for a single knob was wrong.

The principle: TOML is for application behavior configuration. Env
vars are for bootstrap values (HOME, SUDO_USER to discover paths
before config loads) and standard ecosystem conventions (RUST_LOG).
data_dir is neither — it's an app knob, so it belongs in the TOML.

Changes:
- lib.rs::data_dir() reverts to the platform-specific fallback only
- config.rs adds `data_dir: Option<PathBuf>` to ServerConfig
- main.rs resolves config.server.data_dir with fallback to
  numa::data_dir() and passes it to build_tls_config, then stores the
  resolved path on ctx.data_dir for downstream consumers
- tls.rs::build_tls_config takes `data_dir: &Path` as an explicit
  parameter instead of calling crate::data_dir() behind the caller's
  back. regenerate_tls and dot.rs self_signed_tls now pass
  &ctx.data_dir, honoring whatever path the config resolved to
- tests/integration.sh Suite 6 uses `data_dir = "$NUMA_DATA"` in its
  test TOML instead of the NUMA_DATA_DIR env var prefix
- numa.toml gains a commented-out data_dir example

No behavior change for existing production deployments (the default
path is unchanged). Test harness is now fully config-driven, and
containerized deploys can override data_dir via mount+config without
needing env var injection.

127/127 unit tests pass, Suite 6 passes end-to-end.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

numa.toml

@@ -2,6 +2,11 @@
 bind_addr = "0.0.0.0:53"
 api_port = 5380
 # api_bind_addr = "127.0.0.1"  # default; set to "0.0.0.0" for LAN dashboard access
+# data_dir = "/usr/local/var/numa"  # where numa stores TLS CA and cert material
+                                    # (default: /usr/local/var/numa on unix,
+                                    # %PROGRAMDATA%\numa on windows). Override for
+                                    # containerized deploys or tests that can't
+                                    # write to the system path.
 
 # [upstream]
 # mode = "forward"                              # "forward" (default) — relay to upstream