feat: wire-level forwarding, cache, request hedging, and DoH keepalive

Wire-level forwarding path skips DnsPacket parse/serialize on the hot
path. Cache stores raw wire bytes with pre-scanned TTL offsets — patches
ID + TTLs in-place on lookup instead of cloning parsed packets.

Request hedging (Dean & Barroso "Tail at Scale") fires a second
parallel request after a configurable delay (default 10ms) when
the primary upstream stalls. DoH keepalive loop prevents idle
HTTP/2 + TLS connection teardown.

Recursive resolver now hedges across multiple NS addresses and
caches NS delegation records to skip TLD re-queries.

Integration test harness polls /blocking/stats instead of fixed
sleep, eliminating the blocklist-download race condition.

benches/numa-bench.toml

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+[server]
+bind_addr = "127.0.0.1:5454"
+api_port = 5381
+api_bind_addr = "127.0.0.1"
+data_dir = "/tmp/numa-bench"
+
+[upstream]
+mode = "recursive"
+timeout_ms = 10000
+
+[cache]
+min_ttl = 60
+max_ttl = 3600
+
+[blocking]
+enabled = false
+
+[dot]
+enabled = false
+
+[mobile]
+enabled = false
+
+[lan]
+enabled = false