fix: use phys_footprint on macOS to match Activity Monitor

Switch from MACH_TASK_BASIC_INFO (resident_size) to TASK_VM_INFO
(phys_footprint) which matches Activity Monitor's Memory column.
Also: capacity-aware heap estimation, entry counts in memory payload,
heap_bytes tests for all stores.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/query_log.rs

@@ -92,3 +92,25 @@ pub struct QueryLogFilter {
     pub since: Option<SystemTime>,
     pub limit: Option<usize>,
 }
+
+#[cfg(test)]
+mod tests {
+    use super::*;
+
+    #[test]
+    fn heap_bytes_grows_with_entries() {
+        let mut log = QueryLog::new(100);
+        let empty = log.heap_bytes();
+        log.push(QueryLogEntry {
+            timestamp: SystemTime::now(),
+            src_addr: "127.0.0.1:1234".parse().unwrap(),
+            domain: "example.com".into(),
+            query_type: QueryType::A,
+            path: QueryPath::Forwarded,
+            rescode: ResultCode::NOERROR,
+            latency_us: 500,
+            dnssec: DnssecStatus::Indeterminate,
+        });
+        assert!(log.heap_bytes() > empty);
+    }
+}