refactor: return QueryPath from resolve_query, add mock upstream to tests

resolve_query now returns (BytePacketBuffer, QueryPath) so callers
and tests can inspect the resolution path without reading the query
log. Production call sites (UDP, DoT, DoH) destructure and ignore it.

The forwarding test now uses a mock UDP upstream that replies with a
canned response, asserting QueryPath::Forwarded instead of != Local.

src/dot.rs

@@ -211,7 +211,7 @@ async fn handle_dot_connection<S>(
         )
         .await
         {
-            Ok(resp_buffer) => {
+            Ok((resp_buffer, _)) => {
                 if write_framed(&mut stream, resp_buffer.filled())
                     .await
                     .is_err()