feat: auto recursive mode, fix Linux install

Auto mode (new default): probes a root server on startup; uses
recursive resolution if outbound DNS works, falls back to Quad9 DoH
if blocked. Dashboard shows mode indicator (green/yellow).

Linux install fixes:
- Add DNSStubListener=no to resolved drop-in (frees port 53)
- Configure DNS before starting service (correct ordering)
- Skip 127.0.0.53 in upstream detection
- `numa install` now does everything (service + DNS + CA)
- `numa uninstall` mirrors install (stop service + restore DNS)
- Extract is_loopback_or_stub() for consistent filtering

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/api.rs

@@ -160,6 +160,7 @@ struct QueryLogResponse {
 struct StatsResponse {
     uptime_secs: u64,
     upstream: String,
+    mode: String,
     config_path: String,
     data_dir: String,
     dnssec: bool,
@@ -486,6 +487,7 @@ async fn stats(State(ctx): State<Arc<ServerCtx>>) -> Json<StatsResponse> {
     Json(StatsResponse {
         uptime_secs: snap.uptime_secs,
         upstream,
+        mode: ctx.upstream_mode.as_str().to_string(),
         config_path: ctx.config_path.clone(),
         data_dir: ctx.data_dir.to_string_lossy().to_string(),
         dnssec: ctx.dnssec_enabled,