feat: add memory footprint to /stats and dashboard

Per-structure heap estimation (cache, blocklist, query log, SRTT,
overrides) with process RSS via mach_task_basic_info / sysconf.
Dashboard gets a 6th stat card and a sidebar breakdown panel with
stacked bar visualization.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/query_log.rs

@@ -38,6 +38,21 @@ impl QueryLog {
         self.entries.push_back(entry);
     }
 
+    pub fn len(&self) -> usize {
+        self.entries.len()
+    }
+
+    pub fn is_empty(&self) -> bool {
+        self.entries.is_empty()
+    }
+
+    pub fn heap_bytes(&self) -> usize {
+        self.entries
+            .iter()
+            .map(|e| std::mem::size_of::<QueryLogEntry>() + e.domain.capacity())
+            .sum()
+    }
+
     pub fn query(&self, filter: &QueryLogFilter) -> Vec<&QueryLogEntry> {
         self.entries
             .iter()